To remember you are one with all creation you must open your mind to this possibility. A good practice to help with this is to consciously begin to make choices that you intend to be for the benefit of the whole consciousness. As you do this intentionally and begin to feel the loving connection that results, you will recognize how natural this is. Continue and it soon will be apparent that every choice you have ever made has impacted the whole consciousness. Only if our separateness were real would it be possible to make choices for ourselves alone.