In Mind, which in truth is where we live, thoughts that connect us to one another are what bring us happiness. Being connected is what makes us feel complete. It is the feeling of being loved. Believing we are a separate body in a world where nothing can join, our thoughts of loss bring us the experience of suffering as we sense there is something missing. We are, however, given a way to find what we thought was missing; to remember that we are joined. It is to see our brother’s holiness as God created him, before we imagined he could tell a story that could change him and make a world where we would forget that without him a part of our Self would be missing; there would be no happiness at all. Remember this when you are tempted to condemn what makes you happy.