You must look for and expect to encounter love before you will find it. “Seeing” in the world is a mirror of our thoughts. What we see is as broad or as narrow as our perception will allow. We do not see things because they appear in the world. They appear in the world because the thought they portray first appeared in our mind. That is why finding love begins with our intention to find it. Forgiveness is what best establishes this intention. It removes the self-judgments we have used to separate us from love. The next time you feel unloved forgive someone that you have judged.