Giving and receiving are the same is a fundamental principal of Oneness. Everyone who would be healed must choose to be a healer. You become a healer by forgiving yourself, the only one you have really condemned. This is necessary to open your mind to joining, understanding there is a way to love everyone equally and without reservation you had not known before. You make no decision to give or to withhold this Love. It is simply the substance of what you are. Sharing and extending it fulfills your role as a creator. It is with this awareness your own innocence finally becomes a reality.