Loves Presence is not an option. It is a certainty. The option is whether we will recognize and accept that it is always here and now. Find the one you judge responsible for love not being present in the world. Forgive him. Stay with the feeling until you are free of your accusation. Now embrace him with all the love you would normally reserve for God and discover Loves presence in the world. As this miracle unfolds you will witness your story that the world is real fade into the dream it really is. Do this if you would like to know how it is possible to love yourSelf.