Real forgiveness is not intended to bring change to your perception. Real forgiveness recognizes there is no truth in perception; nothing there to really judge between. And in the refusal to judge any aspect of it, perception is recognized as meaningless and can be abandoned entirely. But do this with the knowing the awareness of your God Self is there to take its place. Now, with nothing unacceptable, no need for anyone to blame, we can accept the truth of our oneness. And we discover that in the absence of our perception, only love remains.