Would you rather discover what is wrong with you and how to fix it, or find there was nothing wrong and nothing for you to fix? Remember, you will find what you look for.
Oneness is a reality in both truth and illusion, though in illusion we mostly manage to not recognize it is so. Accepting that our thoughts affect others and theirs affect us, is very difficult. But there is a consciousness that joins us, for our oneness we cannot escape. It would seem then we could be victims, held back by those who choose the darkness. But how can we be victim to what is part of us? And who is victim to a story without meaning or any real effects. Forgive the judgments that would try to separate you from anything that lives. Be grateful instead for every chance you find to help a brother show you the way to love.