In your quiet time bring the person to your mind who best illustrates the most unloving presence you can imagine. Ask your God Self what you must do to see the Presence of God in this person. God is here, be certain of that for in His Mind, where all “things” are, He must be present everywhere. This is real forgiveness. We all must do this if we are to forgive ourselves for if there is anything true in the story this hated one tells, then what we hate most in our own story must also be true. Do not allow a dream to define you.