Sin denies the reality of love. Real forgiveness denies the reality of sin. Therefore, real forgiveness always results in loving. There is nothing else, no other thought than sin, that so effectively hides the Presence of Love. But the most important aspect of loving is that it only comes when there is no cost for it. It is, in fact, already present in our mind, hidden behind the judgments we make. So let the temptation to judge become a reminder to forgive, and remove the only block there is to remembering that you are loved.