Every choice made for love and healing would result in the experience of love and healing were it not for the ego’s responding resistance that we do not deserve to have it. This is the evidence of our split mind. It is the real Self that wants to return to peace while the ego “self” denies we deserve to have it. But while the choice for peace is inspired by the real Self, it is usually sought through the filters of the ego’s belief – give me something I do not have, fix something that actually is not broken. This is what makes the ego’s denial feel so real. But when it seems I need something if I ask to remember I already have it, the “do not deserve” argument of the ego falls apart. Now it becomes a matter of what I am willing to accept and I can demonstrate that to myself by what I am willing to give others.