What makes someone different from you? Is it how they look, the way they think or what they want? Since all bodies are basically the same and we share the same perception and want exactly the same thing, it must be something else. Differences actually only exist in our desire to be separate; to have someone “else” to blame for what we feel guilty of. Discovering that this is true is the role of forgiveness. Learning to love without “reason” then heals the need for differences.