What Comes First?

What comes first: The way someone treats me, or my expectation of it. We cannot be too often reminded that our primary challenge in changing our experience in the world is to change what we are looking for; what we expect to find. Is it possible to find only love in the world I now see? Can I trust what someone would do if I just loved them? If you feel it is worth the “risk” to find out, say to your God Self, “I am willing today not to be afraid of love. Help me.” Then know that you have changed the course of the world.