Who you are is an experience of what you think, not what you do. And it is the intention you have for your thoughts that determines the outcome you will have from them. This is true both of perception and of knowing, because it is spirit / thought that constitutes the infinite nature of our Being. The body plays no part in who we are. It can only seem to be “where” we are because of the part it plays in the story we are telling. When we decide there is nothing wrong with our real self we will let the body go. Free then of the story we will find the ones we are joined with in love where we all, always have been. The myth of separation will be done.